The Nature of the Work

 While  so many people, at least in the United States Settler Colony (we can talk about what I mean by that) don't actually think race and oppression are important and salient issues to address, so many of us are very clear that it is work that must be done, that must be validated and engaged and made more common and normalized.





More often than not, it seems that a lot of people recoil from and avoid frank and authentic (therefore, most probably more effective) conversations about race, racism, patriarchy and oppression. It is often said that that response is natural, given the difficult and uncomfortable nature of these kinds of conversations. Many times these conversations get undercut by people afraid of allowing strong emotions to be aired during the conversation. To many people, it is inevitable that strong emotions will arise - fear, shame, anger, embarrassment, self-loathing, indignation.

And if we are going to be serious about dealing with systemic oppression and ultimately toward dismantling racist and patriarchal systems and structures, we must be ready to deal honestly, directly and consistently to have profound, insightful and revelatory conversation toward actively and forthrightly creating the necessary changes in our communities, medical and health industries, the policing and justice systems along with housing, education, business and media and communications systems.

We must be motivated, committed and willing to be vulnerable, in our full integrity and to hold and move through difficulty, discomfort and heavy emotional embodiments. Doing the work effectively and substantively requires this principled commitment. 

This is the nature of the work.


"Where Do Black Men Live" - Keynote Presentation by Ukumbwa Sauti, June 19, 2025

 “Where Do Black Men Live?” - © 2025 Ukumbwa Sauti


Written for keynote presentation at the Juneteenth screening of the film “Where Do Black Men Live?”, directed by Corinne Spencer, event hosted by The Black Response held at the Brattle Theater.


“This film is a labor of love and fulfillment of a promise made during the participatory action research (PAR) process launched by The Black Response following the 2020 uprisings. That process asked our community to image alternative to policing. As part of that process, we explored the deep links between public safety and housing justice."

Where do Black Men Live? Is a fictionalized dramatization based on these true stories. The script uses the men’s actual words, anonymized and performed by actors in the tradition of verbatim theater.” - Stephanie Guirand, The Black Response


www.TheBlackResponseCambrige.com  




(Presentation begins at 2:25, 14min long)


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Where do Black men live?

Where do Black men live?

Where do Black men get to breathe?


Where do Black men live?


Black men live on the streets, rooming houses, couches, prison cells, jails, institutions, at the brutal intersection of economic, medical, housing, educational, cultural and colonial oppression

In the planned capitalist wage slavery of unemployment, of underemployment, in the ghosting by the GI Bill and the fleeting wisp nearness, unfathomable distance of the possibilities of intergenerational wealth, the possibilities of home, safety, security, embodied ownership yet on stolen Indigenous land


Where do Black men live?


in a perceived and coerced criminality, coded not only into our whip and bullet flayed skin, but into our own concoctions of who we often think we are

In a capitalist European settler colonial state….of a distorted sense of self

In the violence of poverty, the relegation into 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th class status

In the blood red, white violence, black and blue descendancy of the plagiarized constitution that said yet still affirms we are but three fifths of a man.


Where do Black men live?


In the sacred warrior, protector, lover, nurturer of the African woman’s womb, of the Black woman’s womb, in Black woman’s worry, in the complex liminal and hard spaces of Black women’s boundaries,  in the tears of her eyes, in joy and in despair and in joy, the fire of her soul, salvation in the cornrow genius of her hair, in her arms as she released us together over the gunnels of the enslavers’ ships, yet into the growing Ancestral population home, the Ancestral Atlantic ocean womb of so many Africans, so many Africans, too many Africans

In the space behind the guns and cultural weaponry of Yaa Asantewa and her Ghana sisters, aunties, nieces and mothers against the British

In the forces led by Queen Nzingha in Angola against the Portuguese,who had been one of the first nations to send spies, agents, interlopers, contractors and soldiers onto the shores of our African home, where Black men lived, where Black men live


Where do Black men live?


In the indifference and neglect of beaten men who contributed sperm, but not love and commitment and in the lives of men, in the dedication, power and love of those who did give all to family and community, in the communities of men who took on extended family fatherhood’s many facets without officially filling out the application, so many of us still, continuously captured, enslaved, violently coerced into incarceration in numbers so high, in communal pain and loss so deep that we had to write libraries of books and song and poems about it, in the statistics of the USAmerican Settler Colony holding the largest population of incarcerated humans in the world, in the painful numbers that mark Black men as more than 25% of all those incarcerated.


Where do Black men live?


In the Black Liberation Army that liberated Kuwasi Balagoon….AND Assata Shakur…whose legacy would help liberate the spirit, creativity and cultural power of Tupac


Where do Black men live?


In our struggles against the patriarchy already in our cultures, but made rabid by the brutality of off-planet male deity christian European colonial misogyny and then the construct of misogynoir (thank you, Dr. Moya Bailey), in the blood sweat and tears of the intersectional battleground of the Combahee River Collective, thank you Demita Frazier and crew,  and the geniuses of Kimberly Crenshaw and the sisterhood of struggle to clarify the mirror we all see ourselves in,

Systemic oppression gave us a brutal distortion funhouse mirror in which to see and be ourselves, confusion in confusion out, violence in violence out

In our struggles with the patriarchy that rots us from the inside and deconstructs our relationships with all those around us, turning us into the danger we warn our daughters about and often fail to tell our sons not to be, clearly, directly, authoritatively 


Where do Black men Live?


In the sweat of applications for housing, for apartments for rooms for space, the freedom of being held by house, home, the support of the Spirit of our Mother Earth, Tenbalu, in the dotted i’s and crossed t’s, in the asking, in the proving of oneself, in the submission of our names that spark rejection at the thought of the ragged stories of prejudice of us…and our families….or no families,  in the justification of eligibility, the financial risk, the emotional risk, the loss, the rejection,in the wins, in the successes, in the abuse of withholding by power of something that should be a right for all, like air, or water or community or love


Where do Black men live?


In the police legacy of enslaved African catchers kidnappers, in convict leasing, in vagrancy laws….LAWS…injustice is often legal, in the enslavement exception clause of the 13th amendment, in the racist injustice system, foster care, in the school to prison pipeline, in the iron sights and crosshairs, yet unwielded batons of modern day racist policing, in the memory of George Floyd, Sandra Bland, Philando Castile, Freddie Grey, Medgar Evers, Malcolm Little’s father, Breonna Taylor, Rekiah Boyd, Michael Brown


Where do Black men live?


In our futures, in our children, those we fathered, those we left behind, those we were unknowing models for, in our expansiveness, in our pushback, our push forward

In the portals we open, in the pain we relieve, in the pain we create and sustain, in the pain we endure, in the pleasure we give and receive, 

In our missteps, mistakes, missed opportunities


Where do Black men live?


In our surviving, in our thriving, 

In our Nile, Zambezi, Mississippi river of tears, 

In Namib, Sahara heat of anger, hell hot, a hell not of our own creation because Africa never created hell, at least not one it felt compelled to force upon others in abusive manipulation of exploitation, the destruction of the beauty and resilience of Blackness, of Africanity


Where do Black men live?


In bondage, in boxes, in prisons, in the holds, the fetid, festering bellies of ships bound for lands many of our forebears had yet seen, in the Door of No Return, in a castle called Elmina and an enslaver ship named….jesus


In the lives of other men, in the eyes of other men, the arms of other men

In the restrictions and rules and patriarchal taboo of other men

in the hearts of other men, in the boxes men make for other men, so many inherited from colonial, racist patriarchal power to magnify the strength of the prison inside our own minds, if a mind is self-limiting, self-policing, the oppressor can leave their prison door unlocked as we will constantly and consistently build and rebuild new prisons with our own hands


Where do Black men live?


In beautiful bodies, in beautiful and disabled bodies, in beaten, broken and betrayed bodies, in powerful bodies, in medically fragile bodies, in medically victimized bodies, in straight bodies, in fabulous bodies, queer bodies, trans bodies, in Marsha P. Johnson brick bodies in beautiful bodies, in celebrated and stereotyped and prejudged and powerful and tender bodies


In the whispers over everything we’ve ever said, everything we’ve ever wondered, everything we’ve ever dreamed was impossible….or wildly, necessarily, remotely possible


Where do Black men live?


On the tip of the Samburu spear, in the hard military steel of the Zulu assegai, in the insistent fight back forward ever of the toitoi in occupied Azania, in the mantra chant song of African liberation, Izwe lethu i Afrika and the no equivocation of the we will overcome TODAY rally cry of the Pan-Africanist Congress of Azania - One Settler One Bullet, in the story and the creation of Pan-Africa, in the manifestation of a United States of Africa


In El Hajj Malik el Shabazz’s voice, “Revolution is based on land. Land is the basis of all independence. Land is the basis of freedom, justice, and equality.” In the rending of our very bodies and souls from the Earth Mother land of our birth, our identities, of our deep baobab dark soil root of timeless connectedness. In the creations of new foundations created and constantly recreated out of poverty and oppression


Where do Black men live?  


Everywhere….yet still nowhere without some level of struggle and bloodletting


Where do Black men live?

In the fire ash bone dust of Rosewood, of Tulsa, of Slocum, New Orleans, Detroit, East Saint Louis, Memphis, Chicago founded by Jean Baptiste Point duSable, in Philadelphia 1985

In the battles in the swamps of the Seminole, in the Maroon held forests of Jamaica and Ayiti


Where do Black men live?


In the eyes of our Ancestors, in the hearts of our Ancestors, in the blood of our Ancestors, in the wildest dreams of our Ancestors, in the work, forced AND free, of our Ancestors, in the deaths of our Ancestors, in the lives, the breath, the pulsating sounds scientific conservation of energy of our Ancestors transitions and spiritual alchemy


In history, more bright and bold and beautiful than most of us can even imagine

In our presence, our embodiments, our bodies, our movements, our dance, our utterances, our songs of magnificence, from nyabinghi to Nas, in our cries for sustenance, support, healing, holding and relief


Where do Black men live?


In our future, in our futureS, in our dreams, in our plans, in our goals, in our organizing, in our organizations, in our united fronts in our nations, in our freedoms, in our knowing and projections into freedom, even when we have just been notified in official manner that our level of freedom has already been upgraded, though still with restriction, but the level of torture, violence and degradation had been so deep so long, so bloody, so incomprehensible that the Juneteenth energetic release was like nothing we had ever known, a welcome stranger of our extended family we would still yet have to get to know, to integrate into our consciousness, our beleaguered hearts and bludgeoned bodies, beaten but still bold spirits


Where do Black men live?


In the multiplicity of formations and contexts and frameworks, interdimensional, geographical manifestations of freedom and liberation, NOT ONE of them thrust upon us, but every single one created out the concretized prison terrorism of racist, patriarchal colonial forces and people, people that would rather see us asleep in the Matrix movie pods as victim powered batteries, servers in name and in function rather than free and unfettered humans alive in our own communal and cultural body autonomy


Where do Black men live?


In Ubuntu, too simply put as “I am because you are, because WE are”, in the voice of the djembe whose name means “come together”, in uhuru, in umoja, in the Nguzo Saba, in the songs of Shango and Olodumare, in the Dagara ritual dance, in the ring shouts, in the music and dance and martial art of the jota, from Angola to Recife


Where do Black men live?


 We live here, we live - here - tonight, in Cambridge and far beyond, we live in the best and brightest hopes and dreams of people who show up to acknowledge our lives, our living, the harshness of it, the difficulty of it, the struggle of it, the beauty of it, we live in the bloodstream of history, now and forever.


Where do Black men live?

Black men live NOW.

Black men, welcome home.


© 2025 Ukumbwa Sauti 


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Workshops/Classes - Descriptions



 Presentations/Workshops - Upcoming & Sample Descriptions -

Presentations

 

➤ "Where Do Black Men Live?" - Juneteenth Film (of the same name) Screening event keynote presentation (14 min):



(presentation starts at 2:25)


 

➤ "Men, Consent and Patriarchy", May 15, 2025, NE Sex Education Conference, Lasell College, Newton, MA


 
 

Anti-Racism in a Colonized World

Men's Work: Observing and Dismantling Patriarchy -

Patriarchy In Me: Observing and Interrogating Internalized Contexts of Oppression -

Consent: Intimacy, Sex and Agency -

Consent: A Spectrum of Permission and Agency -

This presentation will cover basic definitions of consent ranging from the technical to social/political, international and sexual, physical and emotional contexts. Topics to be covered will be the presumption of sex, sexualization of women, sexual expectations of men, LGBTQ community issues, misogyny, patriarchy, sexualized violence and male entitlement. The social and political ramifications of sexualized violence, assault and harassment are key to this conversation, also considering the #metoo movement and increasing levels of pushback against cultural change.  This presentation may include a discussion of the Gateways of Connection, 18 semi-permeable checkpoints with which to define the process in which sexual consent can be violated or granted with various outcomes. 

 


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Sample Descriptions:

Further Workshop/Presentation Descriptions available upon request.  All are able to be customized for the needs of your community, group, organization or institution.

♦ Communication and Negotiation In Intimate and Sexual Connection will identify important areas of concern for fuller, more aware and meaningful communications while developing intimate and/or sexual connection. This class will cover rationale for effective and meaningful communication, communication interfaces, identifying what the communicators want from the connection, identifying types of communication and communicators, safety, effective listening, the dynamics of expectations, power differentials, the power of “no” and “enthusiastic yes”, consent and communication after the fact.  This conversation is applicable for people new to intimate contact, those that need to improve their ways of communicating and veteran communicators, many of whom can get caught up in persistent habits without being critical of their process.
 

♦ Race: Organizational Diversity and Inclusion boldly engages the history of colonialism and race, important vocabulary and working definitions along with the dynamics of personal identity and family histories. European/white privilege is put into perspective in addition to the discussion of the systemic and structural nature of racism. Exercises, small and large group discussions give context to the connection between personal, communal and organizational culture giving important foundation to organizational reports leading to racial and cultural organizational assessments and the identification of new visions and projections for action and change.

♦ Dagara Cosmology: Bringing Balance and Healing to Community lays a general foundation for the Dagara culture of Burkina Faso in West Africa, outlining important elements of Dagara lifeways. The five cosmological elements are presented in the context of the Dagara medicine wheel, highlighting the energetic nature of these elements and their impact and presence on the personal, communal and spiritual levels and how those levels are innately intertwined.  The integral role of the Ancestors and ritual is covered along with an application of numerological dynamics to the attendees personally and collectively.



 

Men's Work Initiative


 Men's Work Initiative


 

Our important and profound theme of Women, Water & Peace is a core expression of the work of  the World Ancestor Concert.  And though women have always held fundamental and primary roles in the growth and nurturance and guidance of culture the world over, the role, presence and behavior of men has been complimentary, but also challenging, frustrating and fatally dangerous for the lives of women, the LGBTQ community, children and other men. Sexism, misogynoir/misogyny, toxic masculinity and patriarchy represent historical patterns, systems and structures that women and the LGBTQ communities everywhere are engaging, resisting and healing from. 

Ukumbwa Sauti has developed workshops and presentations to raise awareness, inform and motivate men and others to take initiative in changing their behaviors and stepping up to challenge toxic masculinity, misogynoir/misogyny, men's violence, rape culture and the systems and structures of patriarchy that destabilize lives and culture all over the world.

Connect with us to address questions or find out more about us - ukumbwa @ gmail.com

 

 

Men must step up our role in being advocates, for teaching boys and men not to assault women and others, to dismantle the systems and structures, along with the private and social behaviors that oppress women and the LGBTQ+ community. We must constantly strive to be more aware, listening to and respecting the voices of women and be about the work of men healing men from these toxic, abusive and dangerous ways of being.

Join us in our Facebook group, Men’s Work Initiative, for topical, educational and important posts and an opportunity to connect and discuss these important issues.

Please explore the hashtags below on social media:

#MensWork  #MenTakeNotice  #MenHealingMen

 

Tony Porter - A Call To Men (TEDwomen Talk) (11:46)

 


"At TEDWomen, Tony Porter makes a call to men everywhere: Don't "act like a man." Telling powerful stories from his own life, he shows how this mentality, drummed into so many men and boys, can lead men to disrespect, mistreat and abuse women and each other. His solution: Break free of the "man box.""   http://www.ted.com/talks/tony_porter_a_call_to_men

Jackson Katz - Violence Against Women - It's A Men's Issue (TED Talk) (17:41)

"Domestic violence and sexual abuse are often called "women’s issues.” But in this bold, blunt talk, Jackson Katz points out that these are intrinsically men’s issues — and shows how these violent behaviors are tied to definitions of manhood. A clarion call for us all — women and men — to call out unacceptable behavior and be leaders of change."   http://www.ted.com/talks/jackson_katz_violence_against_women_it_s_a_men_s_issue?utm_campaign=social&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_content=talk&utm_term=global-social

Duane De Four - Educator, Media Critic, Activist


Manly Ads 2013 (14:59)

 "I specialize in delivering quality, discussion based trainings; entertaining, media-rich keynotes; and designing innovative curricula. I focus on topics of gender violence prevention, bystander intervention, consent, redefining masculinity and sexual health."

 

https://duanedefour.com/

 

"Engaging Men, Unlearning Toxic Masculinity" from live Facebook stream, October 26, 2017 (1:52:38) - moderated by Dallas Goldtooth, featuring: Aldo Seoane - Greg Grey Cloud - Jeremy NeVilles-Sorell #NativeMenRemade #IndigenousRising

https://www.facebook.com/dallasgoldtooth/videos/vb.1216853/10107413421770153/?type=2&video_source=user_video_tab&hc_location=ufi

 

"Men's Work illuminates some of the work necessary for men in interrogating our roles and responsibilities with regard to men’s relationships with women, the LGBTQ community, children, others and the Earth Herself."

 

Websites and Resources:

 Men's Work - Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1141529595977197/learning_content/

 Women of Color and Sexual Assault: Connecticut Alliance to End Sexual Violence, Racism and Sexual Assault, Facts & Figures - https://endsexualviolencect.org/resources/get-the-facts/woc-stats/ 

MERGE for Equality, Inc. works to advance the beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors that allow men and boys to be their authentic selves and embrace their role in ensuring gender equality. We do this in partnership with individuals, groups, and communities across the globe, including alliances that ensure fairness for women and children. http://www.mergeforequality.org/       

♦ "5 Ways We Can Teach Men Not to Rape" - Zerlina Maxwell offers ways to prevent rape without making women responsible for the crimes committed against them. http://www.ebony.com/news-views/5-ways-we-can-teach-men-not-to-rape-456

100 Black Menhttp://www.100blackmen.org

"Masculinity is Killing Men: The Roots of Men and Trauma" -   http://www.alternet.org/gender/masculinity-killing-men-roots-men-and-trauma

 "9 Ways Native Men Can Heal Historical Trauma" -  http://indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/2015/08/26/9-ways-native-men-can-heal-historical-trauma-161419

"The Thing Women Do That You Don't Know About" -  https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-thing-all-women-do-you-dont-know-about_b_8630416

What Happened To Farkhunda Malikzada - "The New York Times reports: The tormented final hours of Farkhunda Malikzada, a 27-year-old aspiring student of Islam who was accused of burning a Quran in a Muslim shrine shocked Afghans across the country […] For Farkhunda had not burned a Quran. Instead, an investigation found, she had confronted men who were themselves dishonoring the shrine by trafficking in amulets and, more clandestinely, Viagra and condoms."  http://reverbpress.com/world/farkhunda-malikzada-radical-islam-women/ 

Men Stopping Violence:  Working Together for a Change - Men Stopping Violence organizes men to end male violence against women and girls through innovative trainings, programs and advocacy. We look to the violence against women’s movement to keep the reality of the problem and the vision of the solution before us. We believe that all forms of oppression are interconnected. Social justice work in the areas of race, class, gender, age, and sexual orientation are all critical to ending violence against women.  http://menstoppingviolence.org/learn-more/resources/

 Checking My Male Privilege https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/10/29/opinion/checking-my-male-privilege.html?referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F

 

 What Men Fear Most - Poetic License (5:36) -


 

 A Thousand Men In Ecuador Read Letters Of Women Touched By Violence - "In 2011, a campaign by UN Women attempted to transform black-and-white stats like the ones above into robust, personal stories by calling for women to submit real testimonies about their experience with violence. In just three months, the project, dubbed Cartas de Mujeres, collected a total of more than 10,000 letters from women across the country. Nearly half of those letters detailed instances of family and domestic violence. In response, the city of Quito decided to criminalize the sexual harassment of women in public places."   http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/violence-against-women_56537a91e4b0879a5b0c096f?utm_hp_ref=arts

6 Stories From Sexual Assault Survivors, Read Aloud By Men In a video (which has the option to display English subtitles) from Lithuanian organization Moterys Kalba (Women Speak), six men read six different stories from women who survived sexual assault. Titled #Musudaug (#ManyOfUs), the video is part of a campaign of the same name dedicated to ending violence against women.

According to the video’s description, Moterys Kalba asked women to share their sexual assault stories on Facebook and received 25 submissions, 19 of which described situations where the sexual assault occurred in "a domestic environment."  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/stories-from-sexual-assault-survivors-read-aloud-by-men_565c62e2e4b079b2818adc94?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046

How Men Can Become Better Allies to Women -  https://hbr.org/2018/10/how-men-can-become-better-allies-to-women

♦ Working as a receptionist in a legal brothel proved to me that prostitution is anything but a normal job 

"The media glamorises prostitution and presents the illusion that it’s sexually liberating for women, and sex industry lobbyists claim that it’s just regular work. For a long time I accepted this without question.

I was a receptionist in a legal brothel in Melbourne, Australia, for two years and I’d say things like: these women choose to do this work; the men are nice guys; it’s a just a job; it’s no different from doing massage; and it’s a lot better than flipping burgers in a hot, greasy kitchen.

This was my survival instinct speaking and this is how women in the industry make it through the night. You tell yourself it’s OK and think of the money. It’s what you do to make the best of a bad situation, and to stop feeling too awful about yourself.

In fact there’s nothing normal or empowering about prostitution. But I wasn’t able to say that until I’d been out of the industry for two whole years." 

[This article describes men's sexual/ized violence against women often in graphic detail.  It is suggested that men would do well to read this fully and sit with the ramifications of what it means for women and how it calls men to become active in the work, men's work, to dismantle patriarchy and the structures and culture that supports this kind of consistent and brutal violence against women]  https://nordicmodelnow.org/2018/07/01/working-as-a-receptionist-in-a-legal-brothel-prostitution-is-anything-but-a-normal-job/

 How to Be an Ally 101 for Men Ready to Get Their Feminism On  http://thefeminismproject.com/harder-stuff/how-to-be-an-ally-101-for-men-ready-to-get-their-feminism-on/?fb_action_ids=10153113116045633&fb_action_types=og.likes

 100 Easy Ways to Make Women's Lives More Bearable  https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/bj5ex8/how-to-help-gender-equality-international-womens-day?utm_campaign=sharebutton

 

"Men must step up our role in being allies, advocates, for teaching boys and men not to assault women and others, to be about dismantling the systems and structures, along with the private and social behaviors that oppress women and the LGBTQ+ community. 

We can make positive, progressive and necessary change in our lives and in our cultures across the Global Village."

 


 

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